A baby shower is intended to help soon-to-be parents obtain all the goods and necessary items needed for their bundle of joy. Traditionally an American phenomenon, baby showers are spreading like wildfire throughout the world as parents recognize their usefulness. Although baby showers were only held for the first born child, increasing materialistic attitudes have led to baby showers for every child. Some parents even have more than one baby shower; one with family and friends and another with co-workers, for example. Traditionally, the party is given by a close friend of the mother-to-be and involves only women. The party can be held anywhere and usually involves baby themed games, catering, and party favors for guests. Also, many stores now do baby registry lists in order to help prevent duplicate gifts. Cultural traditions have also started making their way into baby showers so that customs and etiquette for these parties can vary greatly between different people. Daddy showers are also becoming more and more popular and involve gift giving for the father-to-be.
Baby shower activities and games can include baby shower bingo, guess the birth date or sex of the baby, guess the mother's girth, guess the baby food flavor, and diaper throwing. Cake is also traditionally served along with ice cream, fruity drinks, and tea. Baby shower gifts are often opened in front of guests and prizes given out for winners of each game. Baby shower themes are also a fun way to get creative. Themes should be accommodating to both the mother-to-be, the location, and the guest list. They can range from simple themes such as pink or blue to more outlandish and fun ideas. Also, set the baby shower date on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon about four to eight weeks before the due date. Before deciding on the actual date, it is important to check the schedules of a few important guests such as the mothers and sisters of the bride and groom. Overall, remember to have a good time and create a memorable bonding experience between your friends and family.